你快樂 所以我快樂

Aston is getting into minor behavioral problems. I cannot list out all now because I am sad & upset & emotionally affected. We think of sending him to be corrected by child therapist but the reality is to have effective behavoir management used by therapist is to have a report from child psychologist. I cannot bear to have a record of my son seeing a child psychologist so we shelf the idea.

Then come the situation of struggle of changing school for him from a academic-based to Montessori-based.

He is active mean he need attention badly.

Being active, he will unknowingly hurt others with his big large actions so need constant reminders. He cannot be ignored and he will try to grab your attention in another different way.

He is naive so he remember and follow wrong things other had done before & decide to try it out one day & as a result being labelled as naughty. With his active character, how right you are right when you do the right things - ok we praise him, he is happy. You are terribly wrong when you are in the wrong - this is because people think immediately you are bad, active & naughty boy & worse case is wrongly wronged - who bother to guide you immediately had not mummy is the one who finds out the truth for you. When you are right, you like to be praised and you are recognised with your good school work like drawing a nice picture. He is totally wrong when he did a naive thing that he did not even know that it is wrong.

He is active so he needs to do things freely, he need big space to display his actions & thoughts freely. Outcome : he splash sand to his friends during sand play.


We sent him to attend one day emergency care at Montessori-based school yesterday. He told us he likes the school & agree to change.

Mummy is very confused and unhappy because I am not reluctant to let go the Abacus and Calligraphy class he is learning in his current school. Mummy is also concerned is Montessori-based school too relaxed on academics. Does their Montessori curriculum cover all learning aspects so that they are also as strong as academic-based school. Mummy do not want to change school in hurry manner. Mummy need someone to explain to me clearly...who can help ?

Progress of Learning Piano

Aston learnt playing piano last year in February. You took part in one recital in Sep last year. Overall, you enjoy playing, you remember the notes & you can complete the theory with some guidance. So we continue let you learn. Now you are learning from Teacher Celeste on Sunday 10am. We hope you will improve under her supervision and coaching.