A series of things happen at home and in school these few days.
1. Over the last weekend, you had blocked nose, took some medicine and look well.
2. On Sunday, you went to fish farm, fed the fishes and ate ice-cream. Daddy said this is your routine thing you will have to complete before you will leave the fish farm. I really think daddy has SPOILT you. Then we went to IKEA shop for things and you played at the children's corner like you have never played before, running around without looking, jumping around and not scared you will knock onto the furniture. This is what we and others say you are so HIGH.
3. Return back to 外婆 place, you bath after some persuasion and showing you the cane. At least you finish the dinner and do some English worksheets before we left for home.
4. On Monday morning, you whine that you are not feeling well and refuse to go school. No choice, we let you stay at home to rest. Back in my mind, I really think you are perfectly alright and I am sure your school will let you attend school as you are not really that unwell. Due to this, mummy had to abandon the chance of family hosting for flu drill organised by your school for Tue and Wed. I was DISAPPOINTED !
5. Mummy took leave stay at home for Tue & Wed. You did not take breakfast and drink milk until 11pm. Shorly you took lunch, played a while with your toys, do some sticker pastings and practise spelling words. You also accompanied mummy see doc after dinner. In the clinic, you played the slide in some dangerous ways and daddy have to watch over you at the play area. On our way home, we were talking about buying the rattan cane and you reminded us where to buy in Tampines. Is this a challenge from you ? Come to think of it, maybe. We have decided to let you participate in the buying of the rattan cane. Will this actually made you aware of cane and take note to behave ? We are unsure and may need some experts like child educator to advise us.
6. Flu drill by your school was a great success as all parents support and the drill was completed smoothly. Thus, you can go back to school today. After some consideration, I sent you to school. While back at home, I can do some work, rest and watch my HK serial show.
7. Frankly speaking, I do not like school to call me. They will call to update parents if something serious happen or telling over the phone for detailed happening or important announcements. Most of the time so far is delivering "bad" news, heart throbing news and enough to scare me news to me. Remember how you cut your tongue two years back & you were hospitalised in KK hospital for two days for GA surgery ? Indeed today something happen to you. You overactively run, you cannot control and go over the limit in playing. During nap time, you did not sleep immediately, you did all those michievous acts, run and push your classmate and accidentally fell and bite your lower lips. There is bleeding, of course. It should be painful or not painful enough because the next thing you did was climb up the computer table and jump. You are lucky you did not knock the head else I think you will have bad fall and in hospital now. What sadden me is you are also not cooperative during literacy class as you make noise when others are reading.
I was very heart broken to hear that you misbehave and was injured. Mummy cried. I am very sure you have all the love and concern from family, you have a healthy family and you can communicate well with us. But the misbehaviors you displayed are like a child from a broken family and he is so emotionally and physiologically affected.
WHAT IS WRONG ? Nothing major happen recently to make you misbehave. It also become very obvious that mummy's sixth sense and observation is right that you misbehave almost everyday in school. Some says you are SMART boy. You are active so you learn things fast so you are somewhat Smart. Then some says these Smart children will do well in studies and high IQ and high EQ. Your IQ is above average and EQ is too early your age to know. But you get along pretty well especially with bigger children. You sacrifice them to the misbehaviors and 不听话 and 不知道什麽該做什麽不該做. We cannot naively compensate them with your good academic skills. We cannot tolerate & ignore your misbehaviors but we simply do not know what to do now. We advise school not to punish you as we fear overpunishments will make you a rebellious person as you grow older. We received too many negative comments on you. The good part is your academic is good, you learn things fast and willing to learn. The challenging task for us to think of ways build up good character skills in you. We really hope you can listen to us and understand what we teach you. Else no choice may need to bring you see specialist doctor to treat you.
You had a new haircut at Aunty Judy's salon after I fetch you from school. It is a very short haircut, you look so handsome and so fresh and hope you can start afresh tomorrow.
听妈妈的话, 別讓她受傷， 好嗎 ？ 什麽時候你才會懂呢？千萬不要等到糟糕事發生才說我開始懂了。。。。
